Engagement
 

After discussion, the engagement ceremony will be held. The men will be represented by family members and close relatives for the engagement ceremony. On that day, the wedding feast will be held in conjunction with the engagement in the home of the bride. Delivery consists of betel leaf or betel slap trellis as major gifts, and wedding ring, such as potpourri, fruits, cakes, clothing, and others who have composed will be given to the woman.
By custom also, if the woman has a sister who was not married, her wedding was also given. This custom is called the move threshold. The number of delivery rather unique as an odd number of either five, seven, nine, eleven or thirteen, because of the amount due is said to have implications that are not good. The total transmission given the female wedding party will exceed the number of men. Custom of sending traditional shopping is also held during this engagement run. However there is also run separately from the custom of providing it engaged a few weeks before the wedding ceremony performed. 

By custom also, if the woman has a sister who was not married, her wedding was also given. This custom is called the move threshold. The number of delivery rather unique as an odd number of either five, seven, nine, eleven or thirteen, because of the amount due is said to have implications that are not good. The total transmission given the female wedding party will exceed the number of men. Custom of sending traditional shopping is also held during this engagement run. However there is also run separately from the custom of providing it engaged a few weeks before the wedding ceremony performed. 

This ceremony will begin with representatives of the men handed slap to the representatives of the betel women and their application to state official. Poem is often used in ceremonies aimed to enliven the occasion. Having received an official engagement, representatives of both parties will talk about the expenses of marriage, the engagement and other related matters. Engagement period is usually within a year, or by agreement of both parties. One thing that was emphasized was the fiancee broke. If the man who ruled the engagement, wedding and spending all the money given to the women treated burned, but if the woman who did so, all the dowry should be returned two-fold.

The highlight is the traditional betrothal ceremony in which representatives of sleeve rings are composed of the men's mother or sister would bolstering engagement ring or ring finger sign of the girl who was proposed. After the engagement was already.

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