Engagement
 
Today the engagement is based on the Chinese calendar, and it should be appropriate to couple the two parent stars. Service soothsayer used to determine the date based on a book that is Toong-Su. This is important because if done at the appropriate time is not believed to be afflicted with disaster, and the marriage will failure. At this time the groom would come to her house to meet demand. Ring exchange ceremony done on time. ring in the handle of his left ring finger by both the bride until the wedding day. For approval, she will be handed a piece of red paper or written nyen-the maiden name, age and date of birth is available from the fortune-teller. After the nyen-received, the men will hold inventory. Nyen-girl belonging to her will be given to the fortune-teller with the same information about themselves. Soothsayer will calculate the appropriate day and time based on the two-nyen and recorded on the piece of paper called the red-corp nyik. When deciding on the appropriate day, fortune-teller to predict the birth of the couple. After obtaining a suitable date and time, fortune-teller will provide two pieces of nyik-corps and given to men and women who want to marry. Nyik-corps consists of the rules and customs to be followed by both brides and grooms covering certain customs.
Dowry and dowry is usually given during the ceremony of exchanging wedding rings, or on other days like today that the wedding ceremony held at the Marriage Registry. Among, is a ring of gold, clothing, cloth and cash. If the man does not provide enough gifts to the bride, a large amount of cash will be given. With the delivery of dowry, the bride's family was told the date of marriage and the negotiations will be made by the bride. In Chinese society, the greater the dowry is given, the higher the prestige and position of the man.

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