Weddings
Before the marriage ceremony performed, many preparations will be undertaken include establishing penanggah barn, guest tent, set up the throne room and the bride and bunga telur.
Also known as the wedding day or day of sitting directly. It was the peak day of the wedding ceremony and the bride is called the king of day.
On that day, held a festive ceremony attended by relatives, neighbors and friends. Both the bride will wear the wedding dress, embroidered clothes and are usually decorated with glitter all. The bride will make up by Mak Andam before the wedding ceremony begins. Mak Andam of traditional, bridal make-up curse spell is preceded by the series advance to raise the bride and fed betel to cast a feeling jarring. There is also a couple of eyebrows shaved and cut its hair to look more attractive. Traditional sharpening tooth is also intended to level the teeth. But this custom is no longer practiced by the Malays today.
The groom is paraded with the scourge of kompang and followed with interest manggar penanggak home to the bride's house. The arrival of the groom's entourage will be greeted with a sprinkling of saffron rice. Will celebrate the arrival of the bride and groom then bride and groom will be taken home and sit in a special place set up. Typically, the martial art performances or even the bride will be called worship. After that, the bride will be brought into the house for biting is the custom. In some places, the groom had to go through some obstacles in front of the stairs, at the door or on the throne for the bride. Therefore, the groom's representative will have to pay ransom or redeem door throne. Bride sitting on the dais will be a beautifully decorated and the ease in which there is interest mosque. During the sitting held customs, traditions fresh meal was done. The guests and guests attending the ceremony will also be of interest eggs on the day.
Next, make peace or dinner meals also called civilized progress. The ceremony was attended only by immediate family members of both parties. After the event, both the bride and groom to greet the parents and relatives and those who had come.
In some places, two or three days after the wedding, the couple is able to undergo a ritual bath or shower berlimau. The ceremony is conducted as a symbol of the bride and groom were safely united as husband and wife are valid. In this ceremony, the newlyweds will be bathed with water stalks of areca nut, coconut water or lemonade. This custom is conducted only among immediate family members only.
A week after that, traditional welcome or invite the daughter-in-law will be held. In some places it is called a social event. The wedding will be held at the groom's house, but not as vibrant speech at the ceremony the bride's house. There also are running a social event with the only hold prayers attended by relatives and fellow neighbors without making the wedding ceremony.
After a few days at the groom's house, couples will be taken on a visit to the house of the family and relatives. The aim is to bridge relations in addition to the bride and groom to get to-contact with the families of both parties.
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